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School has begun! But the heat is oppressive. So we are here to give you an emotional and mental break! Whether it's the Just for Fun column below or Erin's next installment in the Before You Share Your Faith series, hopefully something in this week's News & Notes will simultaneously encourage, inspire, and challenge you to follow Jesus.
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And to all the teachers and students reading this - you've got this! We're praying for you!
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Face Your Fear
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I was teased quite frequently as a kid. Whether it was for my small stature, my nerdiness, my girly first name, or having a last name that rhymed with "turd," I regularly seemed to be the punch line for the jokes of my classmates.
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Because of this routine rejection, I began to do anything that would help me avoid the ridicule without compromising my beliefs. This meant wearing clothes that wouldn't stand out, not talking about the straight A's on my report card, only cheering for acceptable sports teams, and avoiding any conversation that might be controversial.
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That last phrase meant I did not talk about my faith in Jesus. Most of my classmates knew I was a Christian. But I rarely discussed spiritual matters because I didn't want to give my peers further fuel to tease or reject me. While I believed the gospel, I was the anti-Paul of Romans 1:16 - I was ashamed of the gospel, because it might cause me to be further rejected by my fellow youth.
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Frozen by Fear
Today, as we continue our email-only series, Before You Share Your Faith, we come to the crux of the series. When it comes to the concept of sharing the news of Jesus' death and resurrection, many Christians clam up like I did as a middle school student longing for acceptance. Perhaps you are wired differently and have never felt fear when given the opportunity to talk about Christ. If so - GREAT!
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But if you are a follower of Jesus and like most Christians, when you have a chance to point to Jesus, you know the feeling of a brain that seizes up, a tongue that doesn't seem to work, a heart that decides to run the 100-meter dash without any warm-up, and a stomach that begins to tie itself in knots. So what can (or should) a Christian do to not be frozen by fear at the opportunity to share the life-changing message of Jesus?
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1. Go back to the first three topics of this series.
There is a reason we've waited until this point in the series to address the fear that many Christians have when given the opportunity to share their faith. Remember, this series is called BEFORE You Share Your Faith. Keep seeking to Grasp the Gospel, Check Your Context, and Love the Lost. Doing these three things will help the fear monster shrink.
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2. Know the "fear" will come.
Throughout my twenties, whenever given the opportunity to preach (which wasn't very often), I would get horribly nervous. I wouldn't be able to sleep the night before, my stomach was in constant knots, and I completely lost my appetite (among other things).
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However, over time, I began to welcome the nervousness for two reasons. First, I knew it meant I cared. And second, it was a reminder to pray. So I began to use the nerves as fuel to ask God to help me care more for the people than what they might think of my sermon.
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If you find yourself nervous when given the opportunity to talk about God's love as shown through Jesus, welcome the nerves, and use them as a reminder to pray. That way if you do say something coherent, it will be God speaking through you, not simply you with your well-rehearsed canned speech.
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3. Ask Questions.
The last tip I will give to help alleviate your fear is to use a technique Jesus often employed: questions. Ask lots of questions of your friend.
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- Ask for their personal story.
- Ask about their spiritual background.
- Ask where their questions come from.
- Ask how they have come to believe what they currently do.
Too often, we think evangelism has more to do with our lips than our ears. But by asking questions and listening to their answers, you show your friend you truly care, and it will help your response about the gospel feel a lot less like a sales pitch and more of a true conversation between friends.
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Next week, we'll conclude our series by looking at the importance of actually speaking the gospel. But know that your questions are a great way to help give your words meaning and be more likely to be received.
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August Hangout
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This Sunday at 6:30 pm hopefully we can all crawl out of our air-conditioned homes and enjoy a family-friendly outdoor movie at the Riverwood building. We’ll have some popcorn, beverages, and hangout together! Feel free to bring a lawn chair, a friend, and a favorite movie snack to share.
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Youth Group Kick-Off
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The Riverwood Youth Group (7th-12th graders) is starting back up again this Wednesday, Aug. 30. They will have a special "Kick-off" night, starting at 7 pm. Bring a snack and invite a friend!!
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Move Up Sunday
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All Kids Creek classes will resume on "Move Up Sunday" Sept. 3. Kids moving up to the next grade/age range will be promoted to the next class!
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Just for Fun
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We all strive to be truth-tellers, but at some point in our lives, we've all bent the truth just a bit. Christian comedian Tim Hawkins learned this lesson the hard way when asked what his favorite Bible verse was. Let's just say you're not going to want his "favorite" verse cross-stitched across a pillow anytime soon.
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